Learning To Love Myself | Allan Kehler

Surprisingly, the word ‘Love’ has shown up at the last two conferences that I have spoken at. And, that has caused me to reflect.

For so much of my life, I didn’t believe I was someone worth loving.

When you carry that feeling long enough, it quietly shapes everything around you.

I am still learning to love myself. I am learning to be kinder to the person in the mirror, forgiving myself for old mistakes, and realizing I didn’t have to be perfect to be worthy of love.

Somewhere along this wild journey, I was fortunate to find someone who truly loves me. And, instead of questioning it or pushing it away like I did for years, I was finally able to receive it.

Early this morning as I prepared to quietly leave the house, I smiled when I looked down to see a tiny note that my wife placed in my shoe.

Just a few simple words wishing me a good trip and reminding me she loves me.

In a world that can feel loud, chaotic, and uncertain, I am learning that love becomes one of the most powerful choices we have.

My hope is that today you choose love, both for yourself and for others. ❤️

“What’s stronger than a broken man who has the courage to rebuild himself? It’s time to redefine what it means to be strong.”

- Allan Kehler